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The dom/sub relationship is a key dynamic in BDSM (or bondage, discipline/domination, sadism, and masochism as a type of sexual practice). The relationship refers to the unbalanced power play between the Dominant, or the leader, and the sub, the follower. A power play that occurs inside and outside the bedroom. What makes the Dominant/submissive dynamic … Read more

When you don’t mean it when you say, “Stop,” and you act like you don’t like it but you really, really do and your partner is in on it, then you have a consensual non-consent (CNC) kink. Is it wrong? Is it unhealthy? Does it stem from trauma? Do you need to seek help? How … Read more

It’s not about the size, they say. Well, if you have a size kink, then size is a huge deal — pun, intended! But there’s more than one way to size up a man if your motto in the bedroom and in life is, “Bigger is better!” So ready your magnifying glass and let’s get … Read more

Yes, degradation can be hot — when done properly and in the right context. When it makes you feel good to feel bad, then you’re a good-for-nothing pervert with a degradation kink. (See what I did there?) How does degradation cause sexual arousal? Can the practice of degrading somebody for sexual pleasure be taken too … Read more

Who doesn’t like being told they’re amazing in bed? Blushing and feeling giddy are natural responses to honeyed words when they’re whispered softly in your ear by your lover. If compliments about how you look, how you do something, or your character make you sexually excited and make sex more gratifying, then you have a … Read more