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Website Guidelines & Code of Conduct

No One Under 18

THERE IS 0% TOLERANCE on content relating to or alluding to minors, children and young adults. We WILL report serious violations to the authorities. If you see or suspect this violation, please report it to us immediately.

Fantasy or 'role-playing' regarding minors is also NOT ALLOWED. This includes any daddy/daughter, mother/son fantasies or any other type of role playing involving minors. It is impossible to determine intent for this type of post.

No Escorting

There is a STRICT policy of no services, including everything relating to escorting and prostitution. This does not just mean DIRECTLY asking for money in your ad. Any 'alluding to', using code words, attempting to sell later, or trying to trick the system will get you banned quickly from this site. This is not the website for sex work, escorting, or getting paid for your personal time.

No Solicitation or Advertisement

Selling merchandise, offers, subscriptions, jobs or anything else is not allowed. Promoting your social media accounts, access to your exclusive accounts, or anything related is not allowed. We will suspend accounts that repeatedly try to advertise.

No therapeutic services / massages

Content relating to 'massages' or 'therapeutic services' or any service is strictly not allowed. It is impossible to determine intent from these ads.

No harmful, violent or abusive content

Content that is violent, forceful, abusive, hurtful, harassing or offensive to anyone else, including yourself is not allowed. We understand that some of you are into kink - we get it. However, this is not a place specifically dedicated to kink, so please be very respectful of that.

No abusive BDSM content

This is the most problematic content because it's very difficult to determine safe intent. This is not a dedicated BDSM community, so it will be read from the stand point of someone who's not into kink. This is how an average moderator will be evaluating your content. Feel free to express that you're into kink. However, violent or forceful content will not be allowed. For example, its ok to express "I'm into BSDM, and I'm an experienced DOM.". Its NOT OK to express "I'm into BSDM, and I'm looking for a slave to degrade". We can't determine intent from that so your content will be rejected. Same applies if you write that you want to be abused or degraded. That will not be allowed. Repeated violations will get you banned from the service. If you think you are being restricted in expressing yourself or your desires, its likely we are not the right community for you. Same applies to extreme fetishes.

No incest related content

Any content relating to incest (including roleplaying it) is strictly not allowed.

No drugs

We don't allow the sharing, distribution, or selling of illegal drugs on our site. This includes poppers.

No bestiality or cruelty to animals

Bestiality, sex with animals, or cruelty to animals is STRICTLY not allowed. We will report such violations.

No personal information

Do not include personal contact details in your advertisement, such as addresses, phone numbers, or any social media handles, including KIK addresses. User accounts will be suspended for attempts to forcefully insert personal information into their posts.

No multiple accounts, no spamming of posts

We don't allow multiple accounts for one user. We also discourage over-posting (more than 2-3 posts a day). Repeated violations of over posting / spamming will get your account terminated.

No non-local listings

In sections that are meant to be local, please don't post if you are not in the area. Posting in areas not local to you will likely get your post rejected. Posting in multiple cities at once will likely get you banned from the service.

No pretending to be someone else

Don't pretend to be a different gender, different age, use someone else pictures, or post in categories that are not relevant to your situation.

No posting about other users / posts

Please do not post 'warning' users of bad actors or bad posts. As we can not verify the information from your post alone (and it can be construed as personal defamation) that type of post will be removed. If you have a problem with a post or a user, please report the issue to us by contacting us. If you attempt to repeatedly do that, your account may eventually get terminated.

A note about role-playing

If you are into roleplaying, that's cool. However, if any of your role playing includes something that would violate any of the above guidelines, it will be rejected. For ex. role playing incest mom-son scenarios is not allowed.

A note about vulgarity & nudity

Since the post subjects (listing) are displayed in a common community area that's not behind a site login, we encourage community users to keep post subjects a bit more PG and a bit less vulgar. Post bodies are fine, go for it! Also, while we may reject some posts that may have overly obscene subjects, we wouldn't suspend for this reason.

Historically, only less than 1% of posts get flagged, and less than 1% of users get their account suspended. If you are honest, you follow the guidelines, and you don't try to trick the system - you'll have no issues using the site and you'll have tons of fun.

Finally, please remember that you are ultimately dealing with strangers from the internet. Please be cautious and safe. Also be very aware of any one asking for money from you. There are a lot of scams all over the internet. Do not share your financial information with anyone or provide any form of payment. Please be smart and careful.

Enjoy the site and thank you for being awesome!