The breeding kink is for anyone who likes a healthy dose of danger while having sex. It also comes with some question marks for those who are new to the kink. This post includes everything you need to know about the breeding kink so that you can feel more at ease with exploring it.
Kinks and fetishes are tools that can spice up sex between consenting adults. The Fifty Shades trilogy is the most mainstream (albeit poor) portrayal of kinks and fetishes.
What the trilogy might not have covered is that kinks and fetishes are far more common than most realize. Kink and fetish seem to function as umbrella terms under which many different sexual types of kinks and fetishes exist. These range from Daddy kink to consensual non-consent, to breeding and plenty more.
What Is a Breeding Kink?
To understand what a breeding kink is, let us discuss what a kink is. While the definitions may seem clinical, they provide a basic understanding of what a kink is.
Definition of a Kink
Psychologists describe kinks as strange or unusual sexual preferences or behaviors. To foster greater intimacy between sexual partners, kink sexual practices go beyond conventional sexual behaviors.
A kink or fetish can take something that isn’t normally sexualized and turn it into something sexual. For instance, a fascination with facial hair or forearms. It can also turn a naturally sexual act into a more important part of arousal for the person with the kink.
Outdoor sex, size play, DIY porn, roleplay, and a ménage à trois (a threesome for the uninitiated) are all kinks. Spanking, bonding, whips and leather costumes also fall under this term.
Kinks are more common nowadays than before, partly because there is more mainstream awareness of kink. As long as you and your partner fully consent, any activity that enhances your sexual enjoyment is fine.
A kink involves an act or object that increases sexual arousal but the person can get aroused without it. A fetish involves acts or objects that are needed for the person to get sexually aroused.
It’s also worth considering that what’s kinky to you might be boring to the next person. Maybe you’re into degradation or a praise kink, but others might not like those fetishes. That is why it’s important to avoid kink-shaming. Be respectful of other people’s choices, as long as it is between consenting adults who know their choices.
Now that you know what a kink is, let’s dive deep into what a breeding kink is.
Breeding Kink Explained
WebMD states that a breeding kink is “a strong attraction to the idea of getting — or getting someone else — pregnant.” For men, it often comes down to a primal desire to impregnate women and spread their seed.
Breeding kink (mating kink) is no longer an unknown or niche fetish. Videos about breeding fetish have racked up millions of views on TikTok.
Elon Musk claims that he has nine children to help with the low birth rates and underpopulation crisis, which he predicts is coming. However, many speculate that he simply has a breeding kink.
Men who have the desire to ejaculate inside of a woman without using some form of birth control often have a breeding kink. Vice versa, women who desire a man to ejaculate inside them with no birth control likely have a breeding kink.
However, partners often fantasize about not using birth control but in reality, they are (or they’re the same sex and can’t get each other pregnant). This would still count as a breeding kink as they’re doing everything that it involves, aside from getting pregnant.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a woman seeking men, transgender, gay, lesbian, nonbinary, or identify with any other term. Anyone can have the desire to breed.
Differences Between Breeding Kink and Pregnancy Kink
Breeding kink and pregnancy kink seem to overlap due to their mating connection, but the two are different. While a breeding fetish involves arousal due to ejaculating into a partner and getting them pregnant, a pregnancy kink is where a pregnant body turns a person on.
The kink can include sexual attraction to lactation or specific stages of pregnancy such as impregnation or childbirth.
Participating in a breeding kink requires precautions as it involves sharing fluids (or fluid bonding). Breeding kink is close to the more mainstream world of BDSM, where the Dominant typically inseminates the Submissive. This primal act is undeniably hot for many people.
How Does a Breeding Kink Work?
Roleplay can be central to a breeding kink. Here is an example of a breeding kink portrayal: the participants converse as if they intend to make babies. They sometimes also pretend they will not use condoms or other forms of birth control (even if they use them).
Forced breeding kink—exactly what you think it is—is one of the most popular subtypes of this kink. Power play and dirty talk often feature during these scenes where one person ‘forces’ their semen inside the other.
Forced breeding is for those who are more aroused by the more extreme power dynamics involved. Remember to take every individual’s consent during consensual non-consent kinks.
Books About Breeding Kinks
Many authors have written books that revolve completely around the breeding kink.
Some breeding kink books feature one couple. Others have harems (one man and multiple women), reverse harems (one woman and multiple men) or even queer individuals. Other books also involve breeding with aliens, monsters or supernatural creatures, including werewolves and shifters.
Omegaverse is the latter speculative erotica subgenre, which both original works and fanfiction use. It’s commonly referred to as A/B/O which stands for Alpha, Beta, and Omega. This represents a dominance hierarchy among humans who are split into three groups (Alpha, Beta, and Omega).
In this subgenre of fan fiction, Omegas are the submissives and Alphas are the ones who dominate. Betas are the humans who are in between the two. The idea is that this hierarchy dictates the way people interact in all types of contexts, including sexual and romantic situations.
Fanfiction’s Obsession With the Breeding Kink
Fanfiction, if you don’t know, is anything written by a fan of an existing work of fiction. Fans can write anything from heartwarming family moments between characters to breeding in the Omegaverse. Sometimes, this happens in the same piece of work.
Many fans may write the canon characters (the author’s original characters) as gay or bisexual or even trans or gender non-conforming. This allows them to explore sexualities and gender in a relatively safe space.
Homoerotic fanfiction commonly features a breeding kink, which can sometimes lead to pregnancies. And no, most stories don’t explain the biology of this concept.
Breeding Kink for Gays
For gay people, coming inside the anus during bareback anal sex is their version of the breeding kink.
Breeding kink for gays is common, even though they cannot have children. Despite their reservations about conception, same-sex partners may indulge in the fantasy elements of this kink.
Many breeding fetish posts online have gay people commenting on how they wish someone would breed them. There are overtones of dominance and objectification in breeding kinks; you are a hole, a cum dumpster, or a “breeding bitch.”
On one end of this spectrum, you can find people who enjoy creampies but don’t want to get pregnant. People on the opposite end want to become impregnated. Then there’s forced breeding, in which willing victims ask breeders to force their seed into their fertile bodies via rape play.
Why Do People Have a Breeding Kink?
Some people see the breeding kink as human nature as it involves our primal need to reproduce. However, many people who have a breeding kink aren’t aroused solely by the thought of reproducing. So why do people have breeding kinks?
The taboo element of having unprotected sex is what arouses many people with a breeding kink. There are fantasy elements to take into account where the kink involves being impregnated by aliens. Same-sex partners also have this kink, which counteracts the idea that it’s just a human need to reproduce.
Breeding Fantasy
The point of a breeding kink isn’t that you necessarily want to get pregnant or impregnate someone. It is that you enjoy the possibility of doing so. Those who avoid getting pregnant may find this idea terrifying, but many others gain pleasure.
People can enjoy breeding kink as a fantasy while masturbating or using squirting dildos that only hint at danger but are harmless. The breeding fantasy of alien eggs impregnating people also arouses many people.
The Idea of Pregnancy
The subconscious desire of a woman to have a child, whether through conception or adoption, is a major cause of breeding kink. Attachment to a male, in a heterosexual sense, gives women agency and stability.
Hints of Danger and Taboo
Many people enjoy the risk and power dynamics of their breeding kinks. Those who have a breeding fetish may also enjoy the element of danger that comes with having unprotected sex.
While many people might enjoy sex, STDs are a serious concern. This is because having sex without protection increases the risk of both partners contracting infections. While medication can manage many STDs, the stigma still stands.
Some people use condoms to avoid exchanging bodily fluids and to feel safer. Others enjoy ejaculating inside their partner during sex to achieve maximum arousal. Remember to get tested before exchanging bodily fluids, especially if you and your partner are not monogamous.
So, why do people have a breeding kink? As you can see above, there are several reasons but at its heart, the breeding craze celebrates something more instinctual. It is a simple game of dominance and danger, with a dash of taboo thrown in for good measure.
After all, it is common knowledge that a little danger can heat things in the bedroom.
Fulfilling Your Breeding Kink Online
If you’re unsure how to approach your kinks in real life, websites are dedicated to providing a safe space to explore kinks.
If you haven’t satisfied your breeding kink craving, maybe it’s time to try DoubleList’s adult personal ads site, where all kinks, fetishes and fantasies are welcome.
You can sign up for a free anonymous account today to connect with other individuals with a breeding kink.
