Fall Date Ideas: How to Harvest Romance in the Autumn Season

Doublelist Team

August 8, 2023 10 minutes read
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Fall is the perfect time to find yourself a date and begin a romantic adventure. Hot girl summer is over, and the colder weather is rolling in. So, it’s time to find someone to settle down alongside. If you act fast, you might have a partner to share the holiday season with! So, as you embark on the adventure of dating in the coming months, you’ll need some fall date ideas.

As cuffing season comes around, you’ll need all the help you can get to find someone to settle down with. It’s time to meet singles, find someone you like, and whisk them on romantic dates.

Fortunately, fall is full of charm and beauty (even if you’re disappointed that the sun is disappearing). There are plenty of dates you can do this season, whatever the weather.

So, stay tuned as we run through some of the best dates for fall.

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Fun Fall Date Ideas

Fall is full of lovely, charming moments and rustic qualities. This lends itself well to special dates you can only do at this time of year. If you’re seeking fun fall date ideas, here are some options to get you started.

Apple Picking

Apples come into season as early as July, but they’re at their best around fall. Whether you want to eat delicious apples straight from the tree or use them in cooking, the time is now. Apple pie, anyone?

Find a nearby orchard for an autumn stroll and pick some apples with your date. You can use apples for other fall date ideas, too, including baking or making cider.

Pumpkin Carving

Around Halloween, pumpkin carving is a fantastic date idea. It’s a fun date to do with someone you’re just getting to know. You can turn it into a competition to make your favorite movie characters or the scariest Jack O’ Lantern. You could even dress up!

Or, you can take it to the next level by visiting a pumpkin farm to harvest your own pumpkins.

Corn Mazes

Around fall, many towns erect their own corn mazes. There may even be a fall festival nearby for you to enjoy hay rides and sip on beer or cider.

Corn mazes are basically walks with added fun, so it’s a great way to get to know someone new. And if you get lost, at least you’ll be together.

Haunted House Tours

If you want something spookier, haunted houses are the perfect date. Perhaps you’re looking for a big strong man to protect you on a ghost tour. Or, maybe you’re ready to defend your date in case of emergencies. Either way, a haunted house is a fun way to let your guard down and enjoy a fall-themed date.

Relaxing Fall Date Ideas

In fall, the colder weather is setting in. Many of us want to wrap up warm in a chunky knit and sip hot cocoa. The animals are starting to hibernate, so wanting to slow things down is natural. Fortunately, these cozy and relaxing vibes also bring up a lot of romantic feelings.

Here are some relaxing fall date ideas to help you and your partner settle down together.

Couples Massage

Fall is the perfect time to book a staycation. You could stay in-state or travel north to New England to make the most of the autumnal scenery. Either way, it’s time to head to a wellness center. You and your partner can unwind with a couple’s massages or a soothing hot tub session.

Scenic Walks

If you love the great outdoors, fall might just be your favorite time of year. There are few better feelings than leaves crunching underfoot and crisp air on your skin. Take a scenic walk to observe the beautiful leaves and autumn wildlife.

You could embark on a big hike or a light stroll through your local park with a coffee. An autumnal walk is the perfect low-budget first date. Plus, research shows that a one-hour walk through nature decreases stress levels. It’s a great way to unwind, be yourself, and connect on a deeper level.

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Being Alone Together 

Sometimes, quality time is about taking some self-care. If the weather is bad, you and your partner can simply spend the day enjoying each other’s company. Light some candles, brew some herbal tea, and spend the day reading. If you want, you could even build a cozy pillow fort to read in. Don’t forget the fairy lights!

Cozy Fall Date Night Ideas

Fall is the coziest of the seasons. It’s part of what makes it so romantic. These fall date ideas take advantage of the chilly autumn nights to ensure all your dreams come true.

Stargazing

If you live in the city, get out of the hustle and bustle to find a clear spot for stargazing. Once you’re out of the way of light pollution, you’ll be able to see a beautiful sky full of stars. Lay out a blanket, grab some cozy drinks, and get ready for some deep chats.

Light a Bonfire

Don’t worry if you’re susceptible to the cold. Lighting a bonfire is the perfect way to stay cozy in the great outdoors. Plus, it gives you a fantastic excuse to snuggle up to your sweetheart. Again, make sure you grab your blankets and prepare some hot cocoa to enjoy. As the flame grows, so too can your love.

Fall Movie Nights

Not all fall date night ideas take place outside. You can get just as cozy and cuddle up inside with a movie marathon. Consider a scary movie marathon around Halloween or some old-school rom-coms.

If movies aren’t your thing, Gilmore Girls is the perfect fall show to binge. It’s always autumn in Stars Hollow, right?

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Romantic Indoor Fall Date Ideas

Fall is the perfect time for romance. If you’re looking to woo your partner, here are some romantic fall date ideas. These will make sure they ‘fall’ for you!

Cooking Together

Autumn recipes are some of the best, from roast turkey to apple cinnamon donuts. There are tons of fall recipes to try. Find out what’s in season and use it to test your cooking skills. You could even visit a farmer’s market together to buy your ingredients.

Cooking for your date is a great way to show off. To make it more even, take a course each, and then make dessert together. Of all the fall-themed dates, this is a great way to indulge your inner foodie and get romantic.

Games Night

According to Dr. Ash ElDifrawi, Psy.D., in Ten Worlds: The New Psychology of Happiness, competition is good. Dr. ElDifrawi says that, on first dates, people are often too focused on making a good impression to actually make one.

However, “Friendly competition […] can free us to some degree from our focus, and in so doing paradoxically make it more likely for us to behave like our natural selves and thereby actually make a good impression.”

In other words, a game night is the perfect opportunity to get to know someone new.

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Unconventional Fall Date Ideas

Perhaps you’re looking for something a little different. Some fall date ideas are more inventive than others, and these will really impress your date.

Scenic Train Ride

There are few better ways to take in the fall scenery than a train ride through the country. Plus, this is an opportunity to travel together and go somewhere new. You can make a day of it by packing a picnic with some wine and cheese.

Outdoor Concert

Around autumn, there are plenty of outdoor theater and concert experiences. These might not be the best first date because there is little opportunity to chat. However, they are great ways to spend time with someone you’re getting to know. If you share music taste, fall concerts are an awesome way to bond.

Do a Class

Classes are some of the most fun dates around. When you both learn something together, it shows that you’re willing to be vulnerable and bad at things. Plus, you can deepen your bond by learning together.

Pasta-making classes are ideal for delighting your inner foodie. You can make pumpkin and sage tortellini to cash in on the fall vibes!

Or, indulge in a paint-and-sip class where you can drink wine and laugh at each other’s terrible art.

Cute Fall Date Ideas

Sure, spring might be the cutest month on account of all the baby animals. But fall can be adorable in its own way. Here are some cute fall date ideas to impress your date.

Visit a Local Farm

If you’re seeking fall date ideas, find out what kind of farms are near you. There may be petting zoos and animal farms, which are perfect for animal lovers. Or, there could be pumpkin patches and maple tree farms where you can stock up on autumnal goods.

Drive-in Movie

A drive-in movie is a fantastic way to cash in on some nostalgia and enjoy a romantic date. Find out what showings are near you and select a film that suits your tastes. Old Hollywood movies are perfect for the cozy vibes, but horror films are also ideal around Halloween.

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Active Fall Date Ideas

Perhaps you’re more the type who wants to get out and about in the fall weather. If you’re looking for an active date idea, these three options are perfect for you and your gym bunny date.

Hiking

Disclaimer: don’t take your date hiking unless they say they want to go! However, let’s say you swiped right because their profile pic was at the top of a hill. In that case, hiking is a wonderful first date. Take in the fall scenery from up high with a light hike. If it’s light, there’s still plenty of breath left for conversation.

Hot Air Ballooning

Hot air ballooning is one of the most popular fall date ideas. It allows you to see the autumn scenery in all its glory from above the Earth. There are few dates more romantic than this!

That said, it may not be the best option for a first date. Be prepared for expensive tickets and an early start.

Outdoor Sports

Some sports are just made for fall, including biking through the park or horse riding through the country. There are so many activities to indulge in while the weather is cooling. Adrenaline junkies can also try rafting, kayaking, zip-lining, and more. These fun dates are sure to impress your match with something a little different.

Need Someone To Try These Fall Date Ideas With? Try DoubleList!

Fall is a season filled with romance and charm. Now all that’s left is to find someone to try all these fall date ideas with!

Here at DoubleList, we’re all about helping you find that special someone to shack up with this fall. DoubleList’s dating platform is the best way to meet people near you with similar interests. All you need to do is post a personal ad to start. Make it clear you’re seeking someone interested in corn mazes, haunted houses, or mountain biking. It’s that simple!

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