It took a while for me to understand Small Penis Humiliation, but after years of marriage I realized that I don’t have to understand why he likes it, I just like knowing what he likes. After all, he is all too happy to do whatever turns me on, so I decided to be good at SPH.
Here is what I’ve learned: First and foremost, a guy who is into this fetish doesn’t necessarily have to have a small penis. Does my husband? Absolutely. His dick is smaller than every dick I ever sucked. I tell him that. Often. I also tell him that I need a COCK to satisfy me. he doesn’t have a cock. He has a penis — a pathetic penis—a useless penis. A real man has a cock.
Ask him when he last measured his dicklet. Believe me, he hasn’t. So make him do it.
Next, never, and I mean NEVER jerk him off without putting a dong directly next to his baby dick.
You are in command now. Tell him to admit, OUT LOUD, that he has a tiny and little penis. Make him say it louder than his comfort zone. He has to
be scared that someone might hear. Which brings me to the core of SPH, and a part of the name itself: Humiliation. This is the part that is the hardest to understand but makes him the hardest. Embarrassment is absolutely a part of
SPH. More embarrassing and possibly more controversial in the SPH community is being a “sissy”. It requires your husband, the guy you’ve seen be masculine and in control, put on feminine panties. You can start by making him put on your panties, but eventually buy him his own. Take him shopping for them and he will have to hide his little hard-on the whole time. Ask the clerk (male or female) where men’s panties are. You can do it or not, but know that he probably jerks off thinking about it, so why not heighten the experience and be a part of something that he will do without you?
Order him to put on the most embarrassing and feminine panties, micro skirt or TUTU! No, I am not kidding. He won’t tell you, but he jerks off thinking about it. And he WILL jerk off wearing them. You don’t have to be a part of “sissifying” him, but it will be your loss…and his.
Lastly, spanking.
He NEEDS to be spanked.
You can do it as a one-off roleplay or spank his ass regularly. It makes him painfully aware that you deserve a REAL cock, not a puny penis.
Make him say it.
“I HAVE A TINY LITTLE PENIS. MY WIFE NEEDS A BIG COCK!”
Now go buy him a nice pair of pink frilly crotchless panties.
Experience the story in a whole new way — seductive, immersive, and made to be heard.