This is one that I didn't plan. I was in my early fifties, him in his mid forties. He was always with his wife until a sudden illness took her away. A few months went by and he came over, knocking at my door. I let him in and I poured him a hot cup of coffee.
He came right out and asked me if I was gay.I told him that I was. He said since his wife passed and I've been having thoughts about having sex with other guys.
I asked him what he was interested in doing and he asked me why some play the butch role, others Nellie. What would you like to do, I asked. He came right out asked me if I would fuck him, to go easy.
I told him sure, and we both got naked and into bed. I had lube on hand and we fucked for a solid two hours. I made him cum multiple times, and now he comes over five times a week, never suggesting anything else