A Unique Coffee Meeting with an Older Man

Where to start. Let's see. I'm a married bisexual crossdresser, who has major urges and cravings for cock and cum. My wife understands this, and is as supportive as she can be. I love my wife, but I also cant control my urges. My wife and I are intimate, but due to medical issues I have NEVER EVER constimated our marriage. In other words I can not get or maintain an erection. But I can and I'm very good at eating out. She is ok with that. At our age, mid 50s, our sex life is still pretty good. But this is NOT about the 2 of us.
I lost my job some 6 months ago, and she was the only one working til about a month ago. I started talking with this older daddy about 1.5 months ago. We hit it off right away. He was looking for women who wore pantyhose. I asked him if he ever thought about a crossdresser and he told me it intrigued him. We exchanged emails and pictures and he told me I had great sexy legs. He then asked if I wanted to meet him and talk over coffee. I told him sure. But that I do NOT dress in public. He was ok with that. We met about a week later. He was a very good looking older man, 63 years old, widowed and retired. Btw: I'm 55. He told me that I was handsome, blah blah blah. He asked if I was wearing my fem clothes under my regular man clothes and I told him I was. I told him to give me a minute and come into the bathroom. I went into the bathroom and within 10 seconds he was standing in the stall with me rubbing my legs. "Dayummm those are def some sexy legs you have" as he rubbed up and down my stockings. I noticed the bulge in his pants and told him I was sorry I could NOT help him. We left the bathroom and sat back down. I told him I was looking for a job but had no luck.
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