Finding Connection in a New Area

Finally satisfied...

I find it very comforting that I feel satisfied. The craving for cheap encounters to satisfy my desires. The tens of men who flake and leave me twice as horny as before we set up meet. Or the tens of men who can't keep erection. A few that won't wear condom and I send away. Why even try when I state SAFE SEX ONLY. And one man who decided at meet that I didn't meet his criteria. So to finally get a man who not only kept it up, was very good with his hands, and took his time to climax. Both of us enjoying every slow stroke.
So, he contacted me on Kik after seeing my ad here. He was very muscular and hung. I didn't realize he was black man until he arrived. Nothing against just was surprised. I do prefer lighter skin blacks. I did my first face down ass up meet. I actually prefer that now as too many times men can't handle oral then anal. They tend to climax or get satisfied by oral and are of little use for anal play.
My California King bed put me too high for him so we moved to spare bedroom. He propped me up on pillows and talked me through everything he needed to satisfy me. Long slow and roaming thrusts. Kept telling me to relax my sphincter, it's easier to do so if I masterbate while you thrust, but I did my best to please him. I may prefer black men over the vast amount of non performing white men I've experienced.
Not a steamy story, but being new to my area and no one to converse, thank you anyone who reads this!