Navigating Love and Identity Through the Years
Grew up in the 70s and came of age in the 80s. Closeted, but secretly experimenting. I learned to submit to other men. Mostly being used, and sometimes abused be strangers.
Even though I was tall,
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Unexpected Connections at the Local Bookstore
Older DL sub in Pittsburgh. Married to a great guy. But always loved being used by strangers.
Most guys like me are looking for hot, young studs to serve. Not me. I love debasing myself for the
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Exploring the Journey of Submission and Control
Rediscovering my submissive urges has brought me to Double List in search of Dominant Men who will use me as they wish, not just as I might want. Truly submitting to someone means giving up control.
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An Unexpected Meeting at the Cruising Spot
I love CBT. My first experience with it was years ago at a cruising spot. I was sitting in my car, casually stroking when a guy about my age came up to my car. We nodded hi to each other, and he
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Navigating the Dating Scene in Pittsburgh
I've posted a lot of ads here on DL, trying many different angles to find the kind of hook up I'm looking for, without much success. I know some of the reasons why... I'm older.
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A Letter of Submission and Desire
This is the email I wish I could send to the extreme Dom, HOTBG or M666 who replies to some of my posts here in Pgh, PA:
Dear Sir, i beg that you read this before deleting. i am not trolling you or
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Unexpected Meeting in the City Park
One of my favorite places, back in the day, was one of the City Parks that had a big cruising area. But like so many similar places, the cocksuckers always out numbered the cocks wanting to be sucked
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Unexpected Connections in the College Bathroom
I went to college at a major university near my home. So I commuted, rather than stay on campus. I quickly discovered the men's room on the 2nd floor of one of the main campus buildings. That
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Seeking a Strong Connection in Dating
Back in the day, I could regularly find Aggressive dominant guys to totally use me. Such guys would seek out subs at cruising spots. And while I don't necessarily think I presented as a sub
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