{"id":46189,"date":"2024-10-30T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-30T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/?p=46189"},"modified":"2024-11-11T04:06:05","modified_gmt":"2024-11-11T04:06:05","slug":"romance-in-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/romance-in-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"Romance in Bed: How To Make Sex More Intimate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Romance in bed combines physical connection with emotional intimacy. It\u2019s all about connecting with your partner on a much deeper level. Sex doesn\u2019t have to be routine. By adding a touch of romance and focusing more on your partner\u2019s needs, you can transform your sex life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With this guide, you can enjoy more intimate and deep sexual experiences. Keep reading for tips on how to make sex feel more special.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Can I Create a Romantic Atmosphere in Bed?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Setting a romantic atmosphere can transform routine sex into something far more intimate. Romance can only start if you set the right tone. Some ideas include:<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Scented candles: <\/strong>The soft glow from candles makes the space feel more inviting.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Music: <\/strong>Play your favorite love song or search for a <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/playlist\/37i9dQZF1EVGJJ3r00UGAt\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">playlist of romantic songs<\/a>. Music helps relax the mind, creating a sensual mood.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Lighting:<\/strong> Dim the lights or use string lights for a cozy and intimate atmosphere.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Comfort: <\/strong>Clean, fresh bedding and pillows add some much-needed comfort. This will help you both feel relaxed and focused on the moment.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-1024x576.png\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of a red bra overlaying black scribbles and an unmade bed symbolizing hookups and casual dating.\" class=\"wp-image-44798\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Red-Bra-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4 Tips on How To Create Romance in Bed\u00a0\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Making your sexual experience romantic is never solely about physical pleasure. It\u2019s also about creating an emotional connection and staying in the moment with your partner. Here are just a few ways you can add a romantic touch to physical sex.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Build Emotional Intimacy Outside the Bedroom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being emotionally intimate with each other is the foundation of being romantic in the bedroom. Spend lots of time with your partner outside of bed to create a bond. Share your feelings and listen to theirs. It could be sharing your favorite poem or cooking meals together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Having a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.everydayhealth.com\/emotional-health\/how-build-emotional-connection\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">strong emotional connection<\/a> will translate into a physical connection, too. Knowing each other inside and out will make sex feel far more romantic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of torn paper overlaying a BBW woman laying down and smiling on a purple backdrop.\" class=\"wp-image-44821\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Black-BBW-2048x1152.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Use Foreplay and Sensual Touch\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/13-foreplay-tips-to-spice-up-the-bedroom\/\">Foreplay<\/a> is a great way to deepen intimacy in the moment. Take the time to explore each other\u2019s bodies with a gentle and sensual touch. This helps to build anticipation and excitement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember to focus more on the journey, not just the destination. For men, a great way to do this is to <a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/how-to-last-longer-in-bed-as-a-guy-top-ways-to-delay-orgasm\">delay an orgasm<\/a>. Start by kissing and massaging to keep the romance alive during foreplay. Always be mindful of your partner&#8217;s reactions, following their body language.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sensual touch and foreplay are the keys to elevating your sex life and adding more romance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Focus on Being Present During Sex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being fully in the moment during sex helps to enhance intimacy levels. Focus on each and every touch, breath and sound to strengthen your connection. Put aside any and all distractions, like phones, and concentrate entirely on your partner\u2019s needs. Having mindfulness allows you to feel in sync with your partner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember that romance in bed can only thrive when both partners engage mentally, physically, and emotionally.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Remember Aftercare\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People overlook aftercare, but it makes sex feel like a far more intimate act. Cuddling and holding each other after the act strengthens your emotional connection. Intimacy, after you\u2019ve both finished, helps create a sense of both security and care.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You could listen to your favorite love song to fill your heart with feelings, create romance, and kiss in bed as well.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-1024x576.png\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of a man putting his shirt on and textured paper cutouts overlaying an orange bedroom.\" class=\"wp-image-44800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Male-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Is There a \u201cHow To Romance a Man in Bed PDF\u201d Guide?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are plenty of \u201cHow to romance a man in bed PDF\u201d guides out there, claiming to know everything. But there\u2019s no one trick to making a man feel special. It\u2019s all about building your emotional closeness and finding out what makes him feel special.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ask him about his preferences before you go to the bedroom. It could be a sensual touch or playful teasing. Tailoring your bedroom activities to him is sure to give him a night he won\u2019t forget.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make sure to be patient and show that you care throughout. This will build both an emotional and physical connection over time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Romance a Lady in Bed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Before anything, try talking to her about what she likes and finds romantic in bed. This will help form the basis of your intimacy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Small gestures like kissing and caressing can make a woman feel at ease and comfortable with you. You could take the traditional route, like surprising her with a <a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/conversation-starters-for-dates\/\">deep conversation on a romantic dinner<\/a> date. Set the mood with candles to enhance intimacy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Focus on making her feel loved and cherished during sex. One way to do this is to adapt depending on her body language in the moment. Pay close attention to what she reacts strongly to. For most women, a kiss and romance in bed can go a long way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-1024x576.png\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of a woman's bare torso with her hands around her back with a bedroom in the backdrop.\" class=\"wp-image-44796\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_2-1-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Romance My Wife in Bed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You know your wife better than anyone. So, when it comes to how to romance your wife in bed, tailor it to her. You\u2019ll know what makes her a sexual creature and what she simply can\u2019t resist.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Show her both love and appreciation through your words and actions before and during sex. Start by performing romantic gestures, like giving her a massage or talking about her day. This will help put her at ease and deepen your emotional connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make sure you create a comfortable and intimate environment. Change the bed sheets, dim the lights, and set up some candles. This will make her feel cherished and loved.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-1024x576.png\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of a TV screen with an unmade bed on the screen with a pink overlay against a purple backdrop.\" class=\"wp-image-44780\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Room2-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Be Present During Romantic Sex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being present during sex is about focusing entirely on the moment and blocking out distractions. You need to work on tuning in to the connection you and your partner share. Here\u2019s how to enhance your romantic sex and stay in the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Clear your mind: <\/strong>Before you start getting intimate, take the time to relax and let go of the stress of the day. Breathing exercises or focusing solely on your partner\u2019s touch will help you stay in the moment.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Engage all your senses: <\/strong>Pay attention to your partner\u2019s scent and the sound of their breathing. Their body language will tell you if they\u2019re fully immersed in the experience. Staying mindful during sex will bring emotional intimacy between you both.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Make eye contact: <\/strong>Eye contact is a powerful way to communicate your feelings and stay emotionally engaged during sex. It\u2019s a way to stay present and in the moment, boost your emotional connection.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Communicate openly and honestly: <\/strong>Don\u2019t stay quiet during sex. Instead, share your feelings and desires to create a far more intimate atmosphere. You can do this through verbal and non-verbal cues.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-1024x576.png\" alt=\"DoubleList graphic of a woman's hands and legs embracing a male bare torso with textured paper cutouts symbolizing hookups.\" class=\"wp-image-44795\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/12_23_1-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Find a Romantic Partner on DoubleList<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to have romance in bed with a single person near you, DoubleList can help. Our personal ads platform makes it easy to find a partner with sexual interests similar to yours. If you prefer intimate and romantic sex, you can state this in your <a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/personal-ads-like-craigslist-to-explore\/\">personal ad<\/a>. Then publish, and wait for the <a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/how-to-check-messages-on-doublelist\/\">messages on DoubleList<\/a> to roll in!&nbsp;<br><a href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/\">Sign up for DoubleList today<\/a> and find a romantic sex partner near you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">FAQs\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n<div id=\"rank-math-faq\" class=\"rank-math-block\">\n<div class=\"rank-math-list \">\n<div id=\"faq-question-1730283290804\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \"><strong>What are some romantic activities to try in bed?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Being romantic in bed doesn\u2019t have to be difficult. Try simple activities like kissing, cuddling and caressing. Whisper sweet words or share your favorite poem or song to add extra intimacy to your sex.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1730283297570\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \"><strong>What does romance in bed entail?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Romance in bed is all about being emotionally and physically close to your sex partner. You should try deeply connecting with them and being present in the moment. Show affection through touch or deep conversations.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1730283312900\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \"><strong>What is romance to a woman in bed?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Romantic moments for a woman might be different to a man. The focus is more on emotional connection, open communication, and gentle touch. It\u2019s all about the small gestures, like kissing or whispering sweet words. This goes a long way to making her feel loved and cherished in the moment.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1730283327099\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \"><strong>How can I make my bed more romantic?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Try making your bedroom more romantic by adding soft lighting like scented candles and lamps. Pair this with romantic or sensual music. Having a cozy and comfortable space helps create an intimate moment, improving how comfortable you are. It helps set the tone for romance and more passionate sex.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Romance in bed combines physical connection with emotional intimacy. It\u2019s all about connecting with your partner on a much deeper level. Sex doesn\u2019t have to be routine. By adding a touch of romance and focusing more on your partner\u2019s needs, you can transform your sex life.&nbsp; With this guide, you can enjoy more intimate and &#8230; <a title=\"Romance in Bed: How To Make Sex More Intimate\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/romance-in-bed\/\" aria-label=\"More on Romance in Bed: How To Make Sex More Intimate\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":44798,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46189"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46189\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46191,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46189\/revisions\/46191"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44798"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}