{"id":41899,"date":"2022-11-27T23:00:08","date_gmt":"2022-11-28T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/size-kink-do-you-size-up-your-man\/"},"modified":"2024-11-11T04:11:08","modified_gmt":"2024-11-11T04:11:08","slug":"size-kink-size-up-your-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doublelist.com\/blog\/size-kink-size-up-your-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Size Kink: Do You Size up Your Man?"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s not about the size, they say. Well, if you have a size kink, then size is a huge deal \u2014 pun, intended! But there\u2019s more than one way to size up a man if your motto in the bedroom and in life is, \u201cBigger is better!\u201d So ready your magnifying glass and let\u2019s get up close and personal with the anatomy of this kink!<\/p>\n

What Is a Size Kink?<\/h2>\n

We have to move away from any penis fixation to accurately define what a size kink is. Yes, this kink goes beyond the size of a man\u2019s schlong. According to Urban Dictionary, a size kink<\/u><\/a> is \u201cBeing turned on\/aroused [by] a distinct difference in size in comparison to your partner.\u201d<\/p>\n

In other words, size kink is characterized by an intense attraction to somebody because of their size, or certain features that are relatively a lot bigger or smaller than yours. These physical features may be their hands, feet, torso, height, weight, or, yes, their penis. So size kink is not just about a sexual obsession with something being deliciously big \u2014 it goes both ways; your sexual preference may be for someone a lot smaller.<\/p>\n

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We have to reiterate that we\u2019re not just talking about what one might answer to the question, \u201cWhat physical traits do you find most appealing in a guy\/girl?\u201d You can say you\u2019re attracted to men who are over 6 feet, or those with body-builder muscles, or who are literally hung like a horse. A man might say that he prefers his partner to be petite. But a distinct preference for a particular size only qualifies as a size kink when the thought, sight, or feel of it makes you horny.<\/p>\n

Gay Size Kink<\/strong><\/h3>\n

In the gay community, is gay size kink all about penis size? According to a Gay Male Journal article<\/u><\/a>, \u201ccock size is going to be a big issue\u201d for gay men who are interested in hooking up. \u201cDick size is tied for first place with \u201care you a top or a bottom\u201d in the hookup world.\u201d When it comes to serious dating and relationships, \u201cpenis size can be significant, depending on the guys. But, most want to find someone who can satisfy them sexually, which always includes cock size. Yes, even if they don\u2019t practice anal sex often. Oral sex is an integral part of gay male sex, so size will still be relevant.\u201d<\/p>\n

So it seems that size kink among gay men may not be just about penis size, too. As it is among heterosexual pairings, size kink for some gays may also refer to overall body size or the size of a specific body part other than the penis. There are gay men with a size kink who prefer their partner to have a dick that is much, much bigger than theirs \u2014 the longer and thicker, the better. The same can be said about women who have the same preference, however. But penis size may be a bigger deal when it comes to male gay sex compared to hetero ones.<\/p>\n

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Why Is Bigger Better for Some?<\/h2>\n

We must also address the elephant\u2019s giant trunk in the room (watch out for more puns, folks!) and talk about our fascination with penis size, particularly the jumbo ones. It\u2019s well established that larger penises are linked to higher rates of sexual satisfaction and female orgasms. This study on how \u201cPenis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness<\/u><\/a>\u201d also draws a very convincing and enticing picture.<\/p>\n

According to the study, there is a linear relationship between penis size and attractiveness. However, \u201cPenis size had a stronger effect on attractiveness in taller men than in shorter men. There was a similar increase in the positive effect of penis size on attractiveness with a more masculine body shape (i.e., greater shoulder-to-hip ratio). Surprisingly, larger penis size and greater height had almost equivalent positive effects on male attractiveness.\u201d In other words, how much penis size affects male attractiveness is largely dependent on whether or not a man already has other attractive traits to begin with.<\/p>\n

For most women, gay men, and even some straight men (think penis envy), a colossal junk automatically makes a man a thousand times more sexually appealing. For those with a penis size kink, on the other hand, only the size of the mondo junk matters.<\/p>\n

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Size Kink Smut<\/h2>\n

There are many ways to get your size kink fix, and size kink smut is a guilty pleasure you will definitely want to sink your teeth into. Check out these size kink book recommendations from Goodreads<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Size Kink Featured in Monster Erotica<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There\u2019s no better way to explore the limits of size kink smut than with monster erotica.<\/p>\n